Today I thought I would take a look at Forceme's most recent posts maybe there is something interesting, some new sim? some new discussion? something learnt?
Blog- Cheese with that whine? Tuesday 5th April 2011
Forceme goes to new sim opening party (Bella is curious so reads on, and then sighs) so it seems Forceme went along to the party, not a word about the sim, what it is, what goals it has, not a word about the decoration, the people who run it, its potential, instead two paragraphs in Forceme jumps into attack. Does this woman ever go to a party where she dosent pick a fight?
So of course in the interests of this persons privacy and respecting the right for every individual to have an opinon Forceme politely posts the whole conversation on her blog for all to read!
Now I am not defending this girl, I wasnt there, maybe she was being a pain in local chat, maybe she was upsetting everyone, but when was Forceme asked to step in? Forceme was simply a guest at an opening party, she has no stake in the sim, no ownership of the land, no involvement at all. To take if further who is "everyone"? How does Forceme know that anyone other then herself is getting irratated by this girls comments?? If she was causing an issue on the sim then it is the sim owners job to ask her to quiet down, it is the sim owner who can boot someone who is damaging the atmosphere of the party.
Forceme seems to feel that she is needed to manage everyones behaviour. Perhaps she should consider changing her name to Super Force and buy a cape and putting her underwear on the outside, maybe get into SL Security, or perhaps she should stay out of things that do not concern her.
I am relieved to read this post. My rights were violated by Forcme by her posting a very edited version of comments by me for her blog. Notice the blog does not list all those in local backing me up or her comments that would show how she was behaving. She pretended to own the sim and represented herself as such. It took a while to figure out who the true owner was due to her misrepresentation. The sim is a good one. The owner worked hard and made a very nice place. And I will return despite Ms. Forceme's attack upon me and her attempts to try and run the place. The sim had a grand opening. There was a contest with a 5000linden payout but due to no one's fault the contest board was not working correctly and was giving all the votes to one of the dancers there. The Dancer was not to blame either as she thought that she was fairly getting all the votes and the owner would have thought the same thing. But as someone who was trying to vote for someone else and realizing something was wrong and trying to get it fixed because, as a sim owner myself, I know how seriously people take contests. A great many depend on these to use as their in-world spending. But due to Forceme's misrepresentation of being in charge and telling me to shut up who cares about the contest I was outraged that an owner would care so little about the rep of their sim. However the real owner IM'd me that he was fixing things and she must have told others at the party that she was in charge because suddenly all the upset patrons started to IM me for help because she must have yelled at them as well. Well the REAL owner did fix things fairly. He shut down the contest and paid out to all that was on the board evenly paying out more than he was offering as the prize. This was the perfect handling of the situation. The only problem that made things bad was Forceme representing her as the owner and telling everyone to stop whining about the contest they had entered. But the real owner would have no clue she was IMing people and attacking them as such. And she edited my comments to exclude hers and the local comments about how upset all were because of her management. She contacted the owner and gave him an edited version of our private conversation again violating the LL TOS. But apparently she does this all the time. However I assume she loves the attention whether good or bad so I know I am feeding her ridiculous ego here but felt the need to tell my side of the story. I tried to give my side on her blog but well as you could assume she did not post anything I gave her the rights to post. But for the point of this Blog and not to just sound like I am complaining to just complain. Please visit the sim she went on about. It seems to be a good sim and you can tell it had good work put into it. It has a 24/7 club that is fun and it is a cheery and friendly atmosphere when Forceme is not in attendance. And since it is 24/7 you will be able to attend without her there to bother you as I am sure she makes rounds elsewhere pretending to own other sims. Thank you for allowing me to present my side of the story since that was not happening anywhere else. The new place is good and hopefully, as I plan to hang out there on occasion, I will see all of you there at some point. Please say hi as I always enjoy making new friends...Thank you again..Anara Serevi
ReplyDeleteJust a further update. Apparently the owner of the sim does not care that Forcme is harassing patrons. I have tried to have a conversation with him and he seems to care less about the reputation of his island. Or the fact that someone is harassing his patrons. I WILL not being going back to someplace that can care less about how people are treated and I have let all I know exactly how I feel and well the sim owner will figure out in his own time that his sim will suffer.. He does not care he told me because its just fun for him he has the money and does not care...well I have money too but still care about my patrons of my sim.. So its sad that even in second life people do not care about other people. Especially when they have a sim that they want others to come and patronize..My advice is stay far away from Forceme and this sim and well its owner I am sorry I was nice to him and gave him the benefit of the doubt..best wishes all....Anara
ReplyDeleteYou are one seriously la-la person anara. And I mean SERIOUSLY la-la. You have fabricated this whole thing up in your mind and believe it to be true. I challenge you to post up the local chat from that party. Go on. Do it for me. Ya know, for a laugh. Paste up the local chat here so we can all see how utterly La-La you really are. In your mind you have filled in the gaps about who I spoke with, what I did, what other people did and what other people thought and you believe it to be true.
ReplyDeleteYou are pissed because like so MANY others, you abuse and are hateful in IM and then HIDE behind ToS. No, it doesn't work with me. Read our conversation again, and then read what you felt justified in writing back to me 20 mins later on your notecard when I had completely forgotten and dropped the issue. If you need reminding, here it is...
"You are a huge wimp which is why you mute you can not handle yourself because you are an idiot...if you start something then finish it like an intelligent adult...by the way having the longest mute list in sl is not a thing to brag about it just shows what a horrible person you are and that you can not handle anyone confronting you....laughable since you claim to be an expert in the d/s field I am still laughing...my ass off at you...and btw you need to upgrade your ugly av"
You do not abuse me in IM and then hide behind ToS. Now quit pissin' your knickers and grow up, welcome to big girl's land. I ain't gonna spend my time on this pissy issue any more.
"so it seems Forceme went along to the party, not a word about the sim, what it is, what goals it has, not a word about the decoration, the people who run it, its potential" My blog post is not about reviewing a new sim which quite frankly would bore me (And I suspect my readers) to death. My blog post is about new places not always running as slick as they could, how some lenience needs to be attributed to new places, how some people aren't savvy enough to know when to keep their mouths shut and finally, how abusing in IM and then hiding behind ToS doesn't work with me.
ReplyDelete"Does this woman ever go to a party where she dosent pick a fight?" Yes, plenty plenty plenty and what a bore to write about. "I went to a great party and had lots of awesome fun" ZZZZzzzzzzzzz.
"So of course in the interests of this persons privacy and respecting the right for every individual to have an opinon Forceme politely posts the whole conversation on her blog for all to read!" I don't see how respecting the right for every individual to have an opinion has anything to do with posting the conversation?
"but when was Forceme asked to step in?" Err... I don't need to be asked to step in.
"Forceme was simply a guest at an opening party, she has no stake in the sim, no ownership of the land, no involvement at all." You state this like you know and like it is fact. When in truth, you have absolutely no idea in what capacity I was there at the sim. Do you?
"How does Forceme know that anyone other then herself is getting irratated by this girls comments??" Perhaps it was indeed a bad move to leave out the entire local chat. Which, by the way, I was not partaking of.
"If she was causing an issue on the sim then it is the sim owners job to ask her to quiet down, it is the sim owner who can boot someone who is damaging the atmosphere of the party." We will just have to agree to disagree here. If I have a problem with someone then I take on the responsibility of doing something about it rather than offloading my responsibility onto someone else to deal with. If I was still unhappy about the situation after I had attempted to do what was in my capacity to do, then I would have left.
"Forceme seems to feel that she is needed to manage everyones behaviour." I think I have the right to ask someone to alter their behaviour if I was finding it disturbing. She was disturbing my enjoyment of the party and I think it is fair and reasonable to ask her in IM to please quit her moaning.
"Perhaps she should consider changing her name to Super Force and buy a cape and putting her underwear on the outside, maybe get into SL Security, or perhaps she should stay out of things that do not concern her." The cape thang and underwear thang just lessens the impact of your words, just my view hmm? Some of my friends call me Super Force, I quite like that. How is what influences my enjoyment of the party that I was attending, not my concern?
Geesh....move on already...and just for the record:
ReplyDeleteJust a side note to the fact that notes or IMs posted outside of second life is not covered by the TOS however it is covered by laws in the US stating that you can not quote or reproduce any personal statements with out written approval given by the person being quoted.
This applies to private citizens and not public figures only.
Just my well informed information....